52 minutes | Monday, 16 February 2026
In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Daniel Wilsher shares what he calls his “iOS update” - a shedding of identity.After years of building his public platform around the suicide of his father and his own mental health journey, Daniel realised something profound:The story that built him, no longer fits him.From losing his dad at 9, battling addiction, therapy, public speaking, Channel 4’s The Piano, and impacting 25,000 students in 20 days, Daniel reflects on identity, reinvention, masculinity, hope, parenting, resilience, and the responsibility we all share for the next generation.This is not an episode about trauma.It’s an episode about evolution.About what happens when the thing that made you, isn’t who you are anymore.Takeaways• Identity can evolve - even when the world expects you to stay the same• Behavioural change is slow - give yourself grace (20% after 6 months is still progress)• We are not designed to do life alone - build and use your support network• Young people don’t need “toughening up” - they need modelling, leadership and challenge• Praise can transform identity faster than punishment• Who you become matters more than what you achieve• Businesses have a role in shaping the next generation• Service without expectation fills the cup• Solitude and reflection are performance tools, not luxuries• Sometimes growth means shedding the skin that once protected youKeywordsDaniel Wilsher, mental health, identity shift, personal reinvention, parenting in 2025, resilience, behavioural change, leadership, masculinity, hope for young people, school mental health, social media impact, ADHD, public speaking, trauma recovery, service leadership, solitude, reflection, LifeX program, youth development, corporate social responsibility, mentoring young menChapters00:00 – The “iOS Update”02:00 – Shedding the story that built you05:30 – Why behavioural change takes longer than you think09:30 – The power of male support networks13:00 – 100 talks in 20 days: the school tour16:30 – The student who couldn’t name one good thing about himself20:00 – What to tell a 15-year-old finding his way22:00 – Working with kids vs corporates24:00 – “Kids need to toughen up” — response to leaders30:00 – Social media, AI & parenting in 202539:00 – Filling your own cup44:00 – Daniel’s spoken word: Reflections46:00 – What’s next? LifeX & the HOPE program50:00 – Final takeaways